The Vicious Cycle of Haters

Taken from the free book How Haters Help

Those of us who are ambitious have it rough in today’s world. An ambitious person causes a mediocre person to be cruelly reminded of what they could have achieved, had they not given up. Thus, the hating begins!

Mediocre people are hurt simply by seeing successful people. Every successful / ambitious person is someone who followed their dreams – someone who strived to reach their full potential. The hater stops trying, afraid that if they keep going, others will hate on them.

They do not want to be made fun of for being “different!”

Thus, they give up. They become use to their lifestyle of forced contentment, and even blind to it. When they encounter a successful person, it is like a swift, refreshing kick to the groin. The hater is instantly wide awake, painfully aware of their reality and their inability to pursue their dreams (out of fear of what others might think of them).

This pain is so powerful and overwhelming that the hater must end it immediately. By hating, they hope to damage the successful person enough (in reality, or at least in perception) to bring them down to a mediocre level where they are no longer a painful reminder of what the hater could have achieved if they would have stuck to their dreams. If the hater succeeds in truly damaging the successful person through hating and pulling them down, the hater will be victorious. As a result, they will be even more likely to hate on the next successful person they encounter – spreading their mediocrity.

Haters literally become “conditioned” to hate more after every successful “hating.” It is simply a mental conditioning process – a cycle that becomes stronger every time it is repeated.

As you can see in the diagram, the cycle feeds itself. It explains why haters are usually either “average” haters who hate only occasionally, or “veteran” haters who have repeated the cycle so many times that they hate on others every chance they get. Humans repeat behavior when it is rewarded. Reward a hater by allowing their attack to have an impact on you and they will be sure to repeat that behavior!

The more times a hater hates (and succeeds), the more ways they learn to bring down ambitious people. With every successfully executed attack, they strengthen their arsenal of mediocrity. When a go-getter is brought down by their chosen method of hating, the hater subconsciously makes a note that “Alright that worked… I am going to remember that for next time” and is apt to use it again in future encounters.

Not only do haters continuously reinforce their attitudes every time they hate, but there is another problem: Haters reproduce. It would be nice if we could ship all their sorry asses to a remote island, but unfortunately they are scattered amongst us. Haters ally with other haters and even marry each other. Although it pains me to quote him, Kanye West once made a very true statement on the subject:

“There’ll always be haters, that’s the way it is… Hater n*ggas meet hater bitches and have haters kids.”

HAH… but sadly, it is so true!

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